Enough is enough

10. april 2012 at 17:16 | Thalia Contostavlos |  Author´s Note
Thalia's got a rambling mood again :)

.....I think it's finally time for people to learn where to draw a line in the sand. They can't just walk around spreading nonsense about others and get away with it. I don't care if it's their opinion or not, but they have no right to talk about me behind my back and then reproach me with my behaviour without telling me what's actually bugging them about it. If they have a problem, they can always have a téte-a-téte with me and sort it out.
.....There's no need for them to get all nasty about it. It's not wrong to have an opinion and of course they can tell me what problems they have with me. I will at least consider them, I promise.
.....I am a very blunt and honest person and I always tell people what I think about them. Whether they like it or not. But I'd never badmouth someone and then approach them in front of other people to lecture them about their wrongdoings. And certainly not without actually telling them what exactly they'd done wrong. I don't think that's fair.
.....I believe the person I'm talking about shouldn't have confronted me in front of other people and they could have told me that they don't like my behaviour at the time it happened, not a week later. Because how can I change, when I don't know what to change?
.....And what about you? Do you prefer an honest way of dealing with people? Are you straightforward yourself or are you usually quiet to avoid any potential conflicts?

P.S. Now that's why I always clash with someone :D

 


Comments

1 Jennifer | 16. april 2012 at 11:39 | React

I absolutely agree with you. Just remember, honey: I'll always have your back :)

2 Natalia Contostavlos | Web | 16. april 2012 at 20:12 | React

[1]: Thanks :)

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